Jun 11, 2011

Love Letters


Just last night I thought of writing my husband a love letter. I don’t know exactly how I came up with that idea - all I know was that I’m excited to write my first letter. This past few days, I’m being extra sweet to my husband. Maybe because he’s going through a lot lately - at work - thinking of ways how to settle our financial obligations.

Sometimes, we just feel it’s too much. Sometimes, we feel like giving up. Sometimes, we ask ourselves, “When is this going to end?”

But when we look at each other, we find the courage to face our trials. We feel stronger when we hold hands. When we look at Saab, we feel motivated and inspired to work harder because someone’s depending on us.

One thing I’ve learned, TRIALS can strengthen a marriage BUT it can also ruin everything. So you at any point of weakness, you two should find a way to keep each other strong - may it be cooking one’s favorite dish, watching a movie together, laughing at each other’s joke, snuggling, exchanging I LOVE YOUs in the morning -

- and for me writing my love letter to him everyday. Yes, I’m making a lifetime commitment again by telling him the reason why I love him today.. tomorrow.. and in the days to come. I’m going to write to him everyday till my hair turns gray. Yes, I am so much in love but this is more than just it. It’s about dedication, commitment, and inspiring each other.

Learning to deal with problems is a skill all couples need to learn to a successful relationship. Stay strong and be wise. Learn to motivate each other through simple things - as for me, I’m writing my second love letter for tomorrow and I’m just really happy and excited to wake up the next day and hand it over to my husband.




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